Break Ups · Cheating · Relationships

10 Things You Shouldn’t Forgive Him For

To forgive someone is to: “stop feeling angry or resentful towards someone for an offence, flaw, or mistake” Seems pretty straightforward right? No, and we all know this. To forgive someone for a wrong-doing can be a particularly difficult task, especially when it comes to your significant other. Generally, how we feel is logical but why… Continue reading 10 Things You Shouldn’t Forgive Him For

Awards

I Won Dating Blogger of the Year 2016!

Last week, I attended The Dating Awards – the most prestigious event in the dating industry recognising the talent and achievements of brands and individuals really packing a punch and making their mark. I went along as a finalist in the category “Dating Blogger of the Year” and guess what? I WON! I’d like to… Continue reading I Won Dating Blogger of the Year 2016!

Love · Relationships

How To Plan The Perfect Festive Proposal

Ah yes, we’re getting to that time of year where a lot of people pop the question, and no I don’t mean “can I have a pumpkin spice latte please?” No, I’m talking about getting engaged. It happens every year, people really feel the love during the festive season and they certainly aren’t afraid to… Continue reading How To Plan The Perfect Festive Proposal

Dating Advice · Love · Relationships

15 Signs He’s SO Into You

We women forever find ourselves sat amongst our friends and discussing our relationships, trying to carefully decipher mixed messages and deciding whether or not there’s something there that wasn’t there before. Ladies, let’s for once, be honest with ourselves. Of course, we would like to think that we’re compatible with every man on the planet… Continue reading 15 Signs He’s SO Into You

Dating Advice · Relationships · Sex

Should We Just Settle?

About a year or so ago I was dating a guy called Lee. We’d met online and after a few relatively successful dates, natural progression meant that we started seeing each other more frequently – in a romantic capacity that is. At this point, I definitely didn’t feel like I was falling in love but… Continue reading Should We Just Settle?

Dating Advice · Men · Relationships · Sex

5 Things That Give You Low (Or No) Sex Drive

Sex drive, as we all know, is a person’s urge to seek satisfaction of their sexual needs. It’s basically the things that makes us look at someone and think ‘bang me’ and the likes. However, not all of us are blessed with a large appetite for making love. In fact, it would be safe to… Continue reading 5 Things That Give You Low (Or No) Sex Drive

Break Ups · Dating Advice · Men · Relationships

7 Things To Ask Yourself Before You Break Up With Him

Break ups are never easy, and it doesn’t take a genius to work that one out. We’ve all been through it at one stage or another, and it’s safe to assume that we (or our friends) will probably go through it again. It’s a cruel reality we’ve all come to terms with. However, as the… Continue reading 7 Things To Ask Yourself Before You Break Up With Him

Men · Online Dating · The Single Life

Is This The WORST Male Online Dating Profile on POF?

Everyone, meet Steve* Could be a nice guy huh? Hmm, don’t be fooled. This supposedly charming man AKA 29 year old building surveyor has apparently not really had much luck with online dating. In normal circumstances, we’d usually utter the “aww” sound in the hope that Steve* finds a good woman on the net, but wait for it,… Continue reading Is This The WORST Male Online Dating Profile on POF?

Relationships · Sex · Sex Toys

The Dil-Dos & Don’ts Of Using Sex Toys

Did you see the story all over the internet recently? Oh you know which one I’m talking about. This poor girl who wanted nothing more than to spice up her sex life ended up pretty traumatised by the experience. Basically – in short – she got a vibrator stuck up her bum and had to… Continue reading The Dil-Dos & Don’ts Of Using Sex Toys

Dating Advice · Love · Men · Relationships

10 Things A Girl Wants (But Won’t Ask For) From Her Guy

Relationships, whether new or long-term, seem to take a whole lot of reading between the lines, a concept we simply don’t have time for. In a perfect world, we’d spell things out in black and white for our significant other but let’s face it, that just doesn’t happen. We women especially, are tremendously guilty of expecting things… Continue reading 10 Things A Girl Wants (But Won’t Ask For) From Her Guy

Break Ups · Friends · Relationships · The Single Life

What NOT To Say To Your Friend When They’re Going Through A Break Up

Break-ups are never easy and it certainly doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work that out. There’s a whole lot of emotions whirring about the place and no one REALLY knows what to do in these situations. I mean, when it’s you going through the break-up, you kind of know what works for you. For… Continue reading What NOT To Say To Your Friend When They’re Going Through A Break Up

Dating Advice · Men · Relationships

10 Things You’ll Get If You’re A Girl With A Guy Best Friend

Best friends are the best thing since sliced bread, there’s no doubt about that. They’re there for you through thick and thin and sometimes, you wonder what on earth you would do without them. I certainly wouldn’t say I had a massive circle of friends, in fact, quite the opposite. I have a few very close… Continue reading 10 Things You’ll Get If You’re A Girl With A Guy Best Friend

Dating Advice · The Single Life

What Is Dating Anyway?

I like this explanation. It’s logical and to the point, which is spectacularly ironic given the fact that dating itself is actually, in my experience, the complete opposite – irrational and complicated. ‘Dating’ is the not-so-straight-forward process we take part in on our journey to finding our “one true love”. It’s the act of meeting… Continue reading What Is Dating Anyway?

Dating Advice · Men · Sex

Guys, Here’s How To Give Your Girl The Best Head EVER

Sex is a pretty personal thing and it’s always going to be an “each to their own” sorta case. However, after having spoken to friends and more than a few people online, it has come to my attention that the male of the species wouldn’t be averse to a nudge in the right direction when… Continue reading Guys, Here’s How To Give Your Girl The Best Head EVER

Relationships · Sex

The Dos & Don’ts Of Making Home Videos

Spicing up your sex life can come in all forms and of course, when it comes to such things, it’s definitely an each to their own kinda situation. Everyone is completely different – which is fine – and it takes all sorts to push buttons in the bedroom. From the sex toys to the lingerie,… Continue reading The Dos & Don’ts Of Making Home Videos

Relationships · The Ex Files

6 Signs You’re In The Wrong Relationship

Relationships are all about love, and compromise, and understanding, and empathy.. and well, the list goes on, but that much is clear. Over time, I’ve seen relationships blossom into marriages, but naturally with the good comes the bad, so I’ve seen them break down too. Of course, the following conversations include such phrases as “why… Continue reading 6 Signs You’re In The Wrong Relationship

Dating Advice · Relationships

10 Reasons You Need A Romantic Getaway

It’s like I always say, relationships aren’t easy, they do take work but there are things we can do to make that ride a little bit more enjoyable. So you’ve just met someone, or you’ve been seeing your partner a while, or you’re living together, or you’re married, or… well… you get my drift. No… Continue reading 10 Reasons You Need A Romantic Getaway

Dating Advice · Relationships

Relationships Are NOT Black & White

So the news is in, Brangelina are now to be – once again – Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, as Ang has today filed for divorce from her main man after a decade together. Wow. NO ONE saw that one coming. Of course, there’s the odd bit of conjecture in the press suggesting their 8… Continue reading Relationships Are NOT Black & White

Cheating · Dating Advice

10 Most Common Signs of Cheating, From The Private Investigators Who’ve Seen It All

It seems that when it comes to knowing about the tell-tale signs of cheating, we all feel we’re experts in the field, however I can comfortably assure you that the majority of us aren’t. Sometimes, we’re just a little insecure, or overthinking, or anxious, or reading between non-existent lines, and we do ourselves no favours… Continue reading 10 Most Common Signs of Cheating, From The Private Investigators Who’ve Seen It All

Relationships · Sex

It’s Not A Condom, It’s A Pleasurable Protector… Introducing LUWI

When it comes to contraception, we never really know which choice to make. I mean, I guess for guys it’s a whole lot easier because it’s a choice between “condom” or “no condom” and it’s a no brainer. However, for us ladies, there’s a lot of options out there and it’s a pretty difficult choice… Continue reading It’s Not A Condom, It’s A Pleasurable Protector… Introducing LUWI

Dating Advice · Relationships

Could This App Be The Answer To Having Great Relationships?

It’s a truth universally acknowledged that great relationships don’t come easy, they take commitment and compromise but sometimes, no matter how much you want it to be so, some just aren’t meant to be. Why? You’re incompatible and it’s as simple as that. You can try to bend and brush those worries under the rug… Continue reading Could This App Be The Answer To Having Great Relationships?

Dating Advice · Relationships

Should You Split The Bill On A First Date?

It’s the age old question and one that nobody seems to have the answers to. This 21st century ‘issue’ came to light on social media incredibly recently after an episode of First Dates. Brian and Mary were, as every other couple on the show, enjoying a first date – exchanging pleasantries, getting to know one… Continue reading Should You Split The Bill On A First Date?

Dating Advice · Relationships · Sex

Read My Weekly Column in Loveit! Magazine

That’s right, I now have my very own weekly column in Loveit! Magazine Naomi Lewis – Dating, Sex & Relationships I guess there’s no secret as to why that’s my topic of choice, it’s what I love to talk about and what I know best. Every week in my column, I’ll be discussing and chatting… Continue reading Read My Weekly Column in Loveit! Magazine

Date Log · Love

The Best Relationships Begin Unexpectedly

A lot can change in a few short months. I guess you could say I’ve been quieter than usual which is odd right, as normally you can’t shut me up but don’t worry, I’m still me, but there’s definitely something different. Good different.  The title says it all really, and it’s definitely becoming a truth… Continue reading The Best Relationships Begin Unexpectedly